Liz from Mill Valley Life asked me to define what I meant by “squeeze life.”
I put it in my video, for heaven’s sake, as the essence of my life. So I talked about saying yes to opportunities that might make your innards squirm. To approach life with a bit of bold enthusiasm. Add a little “yee ha” to your battle cry.
That’s all fine and good, but there are other ways to squeeze life that don’t require a gut check or loud outburst.
Take the fellow in the sedan this afternoon. He was approaching me on a road that is not quite wide enough for two cars. I hugged the edge and stopped my car to allow him to pass. And when he passed, he flicked his lights, two times.
Flash. Flash. As if his car was acting all flirty.
This put me in a very good mood. (Granted, it doesn’t take much.) I mean, with those two zips of non-verbal light, he told me that he was thankful. We connected. And you know what, I couldn’t wait to do the same thing to someone else. Like I was looking for a way to pass it on.
So let’s hear it for letting someone go first. And then letting them know you appreciate it. Let’s try out a friendly wave, a high beam shout out, or just the common ordinary big ‘ol smile. It’s just being neighborly, really.